Husband is still not home. should I pack up and leave?

Stay! And go and get a "life" or should I say entertainment outside of him with some of your girls. Join a book club, church, the PTA....just do something...whatever your fancy! The more you worry and nag him, the more bitter you will become. Then you can't focus on what needs to be done to make your household run. Everyone knows, behind a good man is a GREAT woman! You can't control another grown person...he's responsible for his own actions. You do have reason to be concerned, and even hurt. But focus your energies on positive things. All chickens must come home to roost. Does he have any good qualities...such as does he bring his money home to pay the bills or help out around the house? There's got to be something otherwise you would not have married him. These gas prices alone force me to stay at home, how about you? STAY! Maybe try being nice to him instead of complaining about his irresponsible actions. Voice your concerns in a loving and caring way. And wear your nicest outfit to work with all the trimmings (hair and nails done and some ecories). Make him wonder and make him scared.